Even though my initial reaction is to be incredibly annoyed and slightly offended, I just have to laugh when people tell me I spend "SO MUCH" time on the computer in a snooty, judgmental way. Hey - I look at it this way; my house is clean, and it didn't get cleaned by a hired housekeeper either. My family is fed good food and I try to do it mostly from scratch. I get in plenty of play and snuggle time with the boy. He's almost always clean and never has nasty crap on his face. He can identify every letter of letter of the alphabet, can to count to ten, and knows most of his colors and shapes. We're doing good work toward potty training, although he's not quite two yet so I'm not in that big of a rush. All this and I still manage to make fun crafty things for my home.
Maybe I'm just better at efficiency and multitasking than some people! Or maybe it's because I don't watch very much television. All I know is that I don't give people crap when they start telling me about "their shows" so maybe they should learn to extend the same courtesy to me about my vices.