tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12812215.post113143778939782717..comments2023-08-07T08:55:07.321-07:00Comments on The Splendidly Imperfect Miss M!: Ethical DilemmaSplendidlyImperfecthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03798649697960237749noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12812215.post-1131485995466957962005-11-08T14:39:00.000-07:002005-11-08T14:39:00.000-07:00I did talk to her, and I did talk to her boss, to ...I did talk to her, and I did talk to her boss, to clear my name. I recounted the events exactly as they happened.<BR/><BR/>I seriously doubt this could blackball me. I mean, they could say I can still work in that capacity in the school, but why do it with so many doubting me and thinking that I did do this? <BR/><BR/>Life is too short.SplendidlyImperfecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03798649697960237749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12812215.post-1131483195002335412005-11-08T13:53:00.000-07:002005-11-08T13:53:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry Ms. M. What a terrible situation. ...I'm so sorry Ms. M. What a terrible situation. I probably wouldn't do anything directly to her through complaining to the same boss you said protects her. You open yourself to more attacks on yourself, and it sounds like its been terrible enough to deal with.<BR/><BR/>Given the seriousness of how you described what you were falsely accused of, have you considered consulting with a local lawyer about what rights you might have? if it was that bad, it could blackball you right out of a career that you seem to really love. <BR/><BR/>Good luck dear.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12812215.post-1131472695628856282005-11-08T10:58:00.000-07:002005-11-08T10:58:00.000-07:00Ok, so I don't know what happened, but is it woryh...Ok, so I don't know what happened, but is it woryh leaving the job over as apposed to asking all parties involved (witnesses ect...) to sit down and discuss the matter so the truth comes out. I personally couldn't leave without the op't to actually explain my side and clear my name, or at least try.<BR/><BR/>As for your "friend", have you tried actually talking to her about it? Like why would she believe something she thought she over heard before asking you about it? I would try those routes first before doing anything vengful.<BR/><BR/>Unfortunately there is a world full of idiots out there.Danea Burlesonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03716194505693420099noreply@blogger.com